During the days following the dismantling of my old barn, there was a huge amount of clean-up work. Several large piles of discarded boards lay around, and it was my intention to save a lot of it for projects. So I could be found most evenings sorting the piles, and thinking, and remembering all the good times that our family had enjoyed in the structure whose remnants were now piled around me.
Thanks to a picture in the daily newspaper, and an accompanying article about the dismantling, a lot of rubber-neckers drove by during this process. And many times my work was interrupted by visitors--asking if they could have some wood for craft projects. I usually said yes to the requests, as long as they wanted boards that I had no use for. Each time I would tell them the same thing. “Take as much as you want, but do something for me. As you craft your items, make a little something from it for me too--something to help me remember my barn.”
They all agreed, “Absolutely, yes of course, we’d love to do that for you! Thanks for the wood.”
Then one evening right after supper, the phone rang. I was the first one to get to it.
“Hello?”
“Hello, my name is Vince. Are you the owner of the property where the barn was taken down?”
“Yes.”
“I was wondering if I could get some scrap barn siding from your piles. I have boys who like to build things.”
“Sure,” I answered, “Come on out, We’ll be here.”
And then we chatted a little--small talk about the things his boys like to build, and how he likes to keep them occupied, and help them with their projects.
Vince spoke very articulately, with an almost cultured voice. I thought to myself that I must be speaking with a professor, or maybe a preacher. As usually happens when I hear a person that I’ve never met, an image begins forming in my head of what they might look like. The picture of Vince was of a neat and trim, well-educated man, probably thirty something. He was medium sized--a white midwesterner. And he would probably show up driving a late model SUV or pick-up truck.
I went back outside then, and returned to sorting piles, and as I cleaned and stacked boards, I allowed my mind to wander into other territories--places where some things were heavy on my mind, and troubling me.
Working away, lost in thought, I completely forgot about Vince and his boys, until I heard a rattling sound slowing down in front of my yard, and pulling into my driveway. I looked up to see an old rusty pickup truck moving towards me with fenders shaking and threatening to fall off at any second.
The truck shuddered to a stop, and a very large muscular man stepped out of the driver’s side. “Hi, I’m Vince, and these are my boys.”
I hoped the shock that I was experiencing was not registering on my face, because this man and his boys didn’t fit my mental image at all. Nothing about my picture was correct. Not the truck, not the size of the man, and not the color of his skin. Vince was a large, handsome black man, dressed in a sweat suit, and had the physique of a football player. I meekly offered my hand to him, and showed him where they could get some boards. As the boys began loading the truck, Vince and I talked for a while. He said he had seen the wood on his way home from church. I asked him where he attended, and he told me about this large yellow house-church in Kidron.
“Yes,” I said, “I know where it is--on Jericho Road.” And then I told him where I go to church, and as so often happens between Christ followers, our exchange quickly became like a conversation between old friends.
Vince shared how he works at home as a contract engineer, doing design work for various corporations. His home-employment was a result of wanting to spend more time with his boys. He wanted to raise them to be Godly young men, and wanted to be there as a father, teacher, and role model. I don’t remember exactly how, but our conversation drifted to the things that had been troubling me when he arrived. As I shared with him, I could tell that Vince listened carefully--with compassion.
Soon he went to help the boys load the truck, and I went back to cleaning boards. But it wasn’t long until, out of the corner of my eye, I saw Vince walking slowly towards me. Gently and humbly, he asked if he could pray with me about the things that were burdening me. I said yes--of course! And there in the yard beside the piles of wood, Vince spoke a beautiful prayer on my behalf. I was surprised and grateful for this genuine display of Christian love coming from one who was a stranger not long before.
Then Vince thanked me for the wood, and he and his boys hopped back into the noisy old, flappy truck, and motored on down the road, happy with their load. And I was left standing beside my pile of wood, humbly thanking God for sending me a messenger of grace.
Vince was so genuine that he probably doesn’t even know he was sent to me that evening, but I am grateful that he was faithful and obedient.
The piles of wood are long gone--years now--and we have yet to see a single thing from any of the people who promised to make a memory-item from our old barn. However, the gift Vince gave me lingers on in my mind--a lovely memory--impossible to forget.
My prayer is this: Lord, help me to be an obedient servant like Vince. Help me to recognize the opportunities you put in my path, to serve people, and to be an agent of your grace.
"He leads me beside still waters, He restores my soul." Psalm 23. This is how I felt after Vince prayed. |
From Kidron, Ohio on a July summer day. This is an area that God has blessed with honest, hardworking folks who love to work the land and preserve a heritage that has been passed down for generations. It’s a great place to raise children who often choose to migrate to other areas, but who still consider this their home, and they love to come back with their babies for some of Mom’s good home cooking.